Did anyone of you had tried to google search the word "friendship" or "friend" ?? I did it and this is the phrase that i like the most "friends do things for each other without expectation of repayment".
From the day i started to mix with my friends, i always tell myself try my very best not to hurt or turn my friend down in any circumstances. This is my thought of friend...but in the end...will i get the same from my friends too?? This seems to be conflict on this phrase "friends do things for each other without expectation of repayment". But i'm a human as well...i do have feelings !! I do hope i have a friend that wont hurt me and turn me down !!
There is a chinese phrase stated that friends is to be make used(朋友是拿来利用!!). Personally, i'm not so agree with this phrase but i do experienced it. Although i did not mentioned, i do found there are friends who keep on take advantage on me..when they need ur help, they will definitely think and look for you...when they doesnt need you..they will ignore you.
Sometimes, when u put someone in your "priority list", they might not put u in the list....in this circumstances, you might be the only one who put in the effort but not them. It similar to you keep on giving something but in the end...you got nothing from them. I did not mean that if i give u an apple, you must return me an apple. I just hope u will appreaciate the apple that i gave to you.
Someone told me that if i'm too good to friend, in the end...i'm the one who got hurt..at first i did not agree about it until one fine day...when i experienced it!!
Someone do "advice" me try to say No to a friend...but..i really hope i wont turn my friend down...
There is a best way to determine what kind of person is ur friend are....try to walk out the "friend's circle" and see how ur friend treat u and others. You might get a clearer picture and better understanding. =)
